Sex Dictionary

Each activity ends up having its own gibberish, and the language of sex is not the exception. Yes, surely we always think we know everything because we use sometimes dirty talk with friends or because we watch some porn, but there is always something new to learn.

Here are some of the concepts to understand a little more about the subject of sex. Terms that do not come in the dictionary or the sexology books because they are product more than anything of language learned out there based on bedtime experiences.

White Kiss

Sexual practice in which the girl keeps the man’s semen in her mouth after ejaculating, and then shares it with him in the form of a kiss. It’s a minority and the name says it all. A large proportion of women do not accept games with semen in the mouth of any male, and many men do not like to taste their own sperm. But as I always say: there are people for everything.

Black Kiss

It is the stimulation with the tongue of your sexual partner’s anus. We understand that those who like to enjoy this practice tend to be shaved to maximize sensations. The hetero myth dictates that you don’t play with your ass, because you can go to the “dark side”. The truth is that it is not a highly demanded practice, but it does have its followers.

French Tie

Fellatio while the man’s penis is between the woman’s breasts. We could say that it is a mix between Cuban and French. The tie thing is quite figurative.

Curvy Girl

Woman with curves and a proportionate figure, with an intermediate size. Sometimes it is a euphemism for a slightly overweight woman. One more Anglicanism.

Teen Girl

Who appears to be in the last moments of adolescence (18 or 19 years old). NO minors, clarify. It is not because of the face, it is understood that this definition applies more to the body. Stylized woman’s body and rather long, thin.

Crossdresser

There are many types of sexual diversity, the ones you can imagine. To name them even though we are still missing a few letters of the alphabet if you know what I mean. Crossdressers are men who dress as women only on certain occasions but live their lives as men, so they differ from transvestites and transsexuals; oh, and they behave feminine for sex.

Cubana

It consists of placing the penis between the woman’s breasts, and she moves them in order to provide stimulation to the male member. As a cultural note, we can add that in some countries, this same practice is called “Russian” or other names. Apparently, everyone calls it according to their nationality. No comments.

Erotic shower

Shared shower with games of caresses and stimulation with your partner. There is a risk of slipping and breaking something, but it’s nice. And there is a certain guarantee of hygiene, especially at the end. Not all showers have the necessary space. It is also usually used above all as initial stimulation.

Duplex

Sexual practice involving two women and one man. The two girls do not have sex with each other, they only share the stimulation towards their male partner.

Lesbian Duplex

Sexual practice involving two women and one man. The girls also have sex with each other as well as with the guy.

White party

The combination of cocaine consumption and sexual practices.

French

The equivalent of fellatio, oral sex towards the man. Curiously, those of us on this side of the world refer to the French kiss when we play with our tongues. Here we associate France with oral sex. We do not know the origin, but surely Paris, as the great bohemian city par excellence, could have had something to do with it.

Natural French

Fellatio without using a condom. Unprotected oral sex is not a great danger for HIV transmission under normal conditions, but it is for other types of infections. In countries such as Germany and the Netherlands, its prohibition has been the subject of debate, even in regulated prostitution.

Full Blowjob

Fellatio until the end, that is, until the man reaches orgasm and ejaculation. In short, oral sex is not just an episode that can turn into masturbation later on. It is not defined if the ejaculation will continue the stimulation or not.

Deep Throat

The introduction of the total penis (or very deep) in the mouth of your partner. The deep introduction causes certain gagging reflexes that are curiously exciting for some. Porn has filled the internet with hours and hours of this practice.

GFE – Girlfriend Experience

Modality of service that a prostitute offers, whose characteristic is the inclusion of a behavior acting as the client’s girlfriend or partner. Halfway between close treatment, kisses, and a certain degree of petting. That is progressive caresses and an approach not far removed from the sexual encounter. Although it seems curious, some prostitutes prefer a clearly sexualized role in their contacts to separate their real personality from the interactions with their clients.

Greek

It is the name given to anal sex. We know that in the classical world of Ancient Greece, homosexuality was quite widespread, we could infer that the denomination comes from the homosexual practice par excellence. Although it should be clarified, according to anthropological sources, that the Greeks were not homosexuals. But they weren’t straight, either. The only term that exists in our language to define the sexual identity of the Athenians is bisexual.

Body-body massage

It’s a type of erotic massage that consists of rubbing the woman’s body on the man. The interaction is inevitably greater than in other massages, where the stimulation could only be manual. For contact in motion, the presence of oil, moisturizing cream or some type of gel is equally necessary.

Lingam massage

Tantric sexual practice aimed at stimulating the penis. In tantric terms, a lingam is much more than masturbation. In fact, even orgasm is not supposed to be the main goal. Internet videos show that in something that seemed classic, much innovation has been achieved. Oil, movements, and different techniques have rediscovered the pleasures of manual stimulation. Perhaps one of the incentives is its low risk of STI infection and the possibility of establishing a space between the person who stimulates the massage and the person who receives it.

Nuru Massage

It is a full-body massage technique where both parties are completely covered in massage gel from head to toe and use their bodies to caress, rub, tickle, knead, slide and caress the body of the other person. It is a success within paid sex because not everyone has a space to smear themselves with gels or oils and not look like a pervert. Nor do motels usually provide something like this. In a massage center, it is something that can be tried, and many users repeat it.

Prostate massage

Stimulation of the male prostate gland. It involves the penetration of the anus with one or several fingers. Much has been said about the prostate. That if there are men who have orgasms of another level with it, or if it is the male G-spot. In my experience and using the cliché phrase, is that not “all men are the same”, at least in that aspect. The truth is that it is a demanded practice and for the same reasons. And you don’t ask any stranger you just meet to urge you around there on the first date.

Yoni Massage

It is a sexual practice that involves manual stimulation and massage of the vagina and clitoris. Again, in a tantric sense, it is something far beyond “fingering”. The female clients who hire these services are not many, but they do exist. Couples who attend simultaneous massages are more numerous, and for women, there is a menu of services and techniques available.

MILF (Mother I’d Like to Fuck)

Although here in México it is confusing, and they call the term to those women that are real mothers, the term became popular thanks to porn and the movie American Pie. The truth is that it refers to women who by age could be the mother of the person who uses the term, and who are sexually desirable and attractive. It is one more way to call a mature woman. In prostitution advertisements, they usually lie a bit about their age, and it is difficult to know the real ages. But it is verifiable that there is a notable offer in age ranges above fifty years. For tastes there are colors, we age better every time if we take care of ourselves, and also the experience brings extra value to sexuality.

Squirt or squirting

The expulsion of a variable amount of fluid from the vulva during the woman’s orgasm. Porn has been responsible for democratizing a phenomenon that seemed like a mystery years ago. The expelled fluid is more similar to tears or blood serum than urine. Being a relative minority phenomenon among women, for some men it turns out to be a mystery, porn has been in charge of showing it, but few have experienced it and few others have actually seen it.

Strap on

It’s a dildo designed to be used (usually mounted on a harness) in sexual acts to penetrate the man anally or orally. Also used by women towards women. The debate is served. If you like being penetrated by a woman, does that mean you are less straight than others? Surely yes, but nobody takes away from you the experience. Some prostitutes advertise it as a service because they know it has its audience, and you can’t do it with just any date.

There are many sexual terms. In general, they feed on innovations, fantasies, and new variants that sometimes add a new name to the heritage. Sex is by nature transgressive and lives on innovation, since what is repetitive and known ends up generating disinterest. In the meantime, let’s get to know them and use them. Let’s take advantage before they are stigmatized or even outlawed in these times of limited rights and freedoms that remind us of the Spanish Inquisition. You never know.