Ma’am! Hire a gigolo!

We, as women, can hire a gigolo for a variety of reasons, often driven by a desire for specific types of intimacy, attention, control, and discretion that we may not find in a regular relationship or on the dating scene. The reasons are diverse and often personal, reflecting a range of unmet emotional and physical needs. 

Key motivations include:

• Sexual Satisfaction and Exploration: Many women seek to fulfill specific sexual needs, desires, or fantasies that their regular partners may not be able or willing to provide. Escorts and gigolos are often seen as professionals who can provide a satisfying sexual experience without judgment.
• Companionship and Affection: Beyond sex, we often desire non-sexual intimacy such as cuddling, holding hands, or having someone to talk to and feel heard by. This “boyfriend experience” provides emotional connection and attention that may be missing from our daily lives.
• Empowerment and Control: Hiring a gigolo allows us to be in charge of the encounter, dictating the terms, type of interaction, and boundaries. This can be an empowering experience, especially for high-powered or busy women who prefer a straightforward arrangement without the complexities and time investment of traditional dating.
• Discretion and Lack of Commitment: The professional, no-strings-attached nature of the service offers a discreet way to seek pleasure or companionship, avoiding the potential messiness, guilt, or emotional baggage of an affair or a full-blown relationship.
• Relationship Issues: Women in unsatisfying or sexless marriages may use gigolos to meet their needs rather than seeking a divorce or having a messy affair.
• Novelty and Escape: The experience offers a break from routine and a safe space to explore something new and exciting outside the bounds of a normal lifestyle.
• Therapeutic Reasons: Some women may hire an escort to help them deal with past trauma, build self-confidence, or explore their sexuality in a safe, controlled environment after a bad breakup or a period of deprivation. 

Ultimately, the reasons are diverse and individual, reflecting a wide range of human needs for connection, pleasure, and personal agency.

Opinions Based on the Personal Experiences of Some Users:

“I’m a 41-year-old woman from a small town, and I recently went to the big city for the same reason. I did hire one guy, and it was the best thing I could do.

I hate dating apps, and I don’t want to go on them. Not only that, but I divorced from my husband 3 years ago, and I have small children. Furthermore, I don’t want to complicate my life with men. I don’t have the strength to deal with men’s drama, and I don’t want to introduce any men to my children yet. Nor do I want to have intimacy in my own bed with a stranger, because my children often sleep in my bed with me. So, for me, it is the ideal solution for the moment. I got the “boyfriend” experience.”

Claudia

“The mistake here is thinking that hiring an escort or a gigolo is a sign of desperation. While yes, they do it for money, some do it for fun too… why can’t it be fun for you and me? Maybe I won’t be pitying myself too much. I get to pick my type too… fulfill my fantasy…and no one will know.

Nothing’s wrong with getting my needs satisfied when no one gets hurt. Voluntary exchange. I’ve done it not one but MANY times. I don’t think it’s anything to be ashamed of.

Carolina

Sex is sex … You’re horny. The hormones are telling you, ‘Please get someone to touch us’ …  Anyway, I bet you the rates are cheaper than what it costs to date someone anyway. Nothing shameful.

It shouldn’t be as stigmatized as it is. I had a friend tell me he paid someone to cuddle him at one point. There’s a reason people pay for this stuff, and it’s because it’s a normal human need.

Paula

I’m a busy woman; because of work, I’m always traveling to different places for business purposes, so I stay away from home most of my time. Sometimes I need some relaxation whenever I’m stressed out. So I hire a male companion on more than one occasion.

Sofía

It’s not just men; women have needs too. Do you think it’s wrong for a woman to hire the services of a gigolo? This certainly goes against conventional thinking. If you think women hire male escorts just for sex, you’re wrong. Regardless of whether you have an orgasm or not, sometimes it’s more about having company in those moments when you feel lonely.

Celia

In short, engaging in this experience can open doors and lead to more self-confidence, fulfilling sexuality, and authentic connections.